+My love, it is not because you are "good" or because you are "bad" that I come to you. This love I offer is totally disconnected from your behavior. I see you. I know you. My Love transcends your feeble attempts to get things right. I AM LOVE. It is the very inability to be who you want to be that My Heart is drawn to! This is why it's so important to not judge. Don't judge others and don't judge yourself! When you feel like things are spinning our of control and your emotions are raw; when confusion wraps tight around your mind and heart...STOP! Step back and know that I am God! I am YOUR GOD...Who sees the whole - beginning to end. Remind yourself of the ways I've protected you and revealed My Love for you over and over. Right now, all you can think of is what you are losing. This slides you into the black hole of all the times where you felt surrounded by "no's." The mountain of disappointments looks huge to you...casting a dark shadow over everything, even though the sun is shining. Even though My Love for you hasn't changed, you feel abandoned and desolate. Take heart My love. Trust now in the darkness and believe that My light of Love never stops shining on you! Take all the loss and fear and disappointment (in yourself and in others) and simply COME TO ME! There are no words to capture or even understand what you are feeling. I know your struggle. Accept the unknowing and your weakness and step towards Me in faith. Declare with all your heart, that you ARE "confidant that you WILL see the Goodness of the Lord in the land of the living." Believe that this Word has Power. It is true! Just speaking it can convince your mind and take you out of this black hole...back to My waiting arms. I've never moved. I will always be right by your side....for you...in you ....convincing you that you are loved perfectly....forever!